I'm going to disagree with what some of the people have said. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert. I was happy to read your blog. And for mormons, the goal is always a temple marriage and a marriage for the eternities. It makes it hard to plan any sort of date. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. I also felt like I could never be a good wife. And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail.
Be open and talk about your ideals. It has always been like this. I've learned that when I need attention, it's best to ask for it rather than wasting time acting sad or frustrated. Would she be okay with having a home that is split religiously.
And that fairly constant theme has some deep implications your girlfriend will have to face. It is soooo hard. M so happy that I found this blog. By exactly how much ESPN gets watched in the course of a man-day. My seminary teacher went off on me about dating a non Mormon when I was talking about going to his prom. I need suggestions to handld the neurotic behavior, ocd, and opinions. Well, there were other circumstances that made it especially unique and One thing in your favor is the fact that she is in her late 20s by Mormon standards she is already an old maidhopefully she and her family will just want her to have love and not put the pressure on converting you, but there are countless stories of dudes getting dumped on here because ultimately they chose the church.
I can second this, as a lifelong utahn this is why I simply have a "no mormons" policy for dating. Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage. I used to be religious when I was a kid. There is the possibility that she will wise up over time, but not likely. See to it that she is aware of your plan, so you both can properly dress. I have been happily married to a non-mormon for 20 years.