First nights can be a real nightmare for many. It is after all the first time you will be in bed with your husband. The man you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with.
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Stealing The Shoes
This is her story and it is a must read:. Is it the most thrilling adventure of their lives? Or is it as scary as it seems to me? Well for me I can say, it was anything but all sunshine and rainbows.
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Marriage is the divine union of two souls and it is regarded very pious in India. This is the reason why marriages are organised with a lot of pomp and show. Some of the first night customs are very interesting. Here are some of the rituals that you may have seen even in the Bollywood flicks. In many parts of India, as a part of the wedding ritual or after the wedding, the bride's family steal's the groom's shoes and hides it. The groom has to find it or pay any amount that he is requested to inorder to get the shoes back.
The Indian first night can give anyone the jitters. Even if it's a love marriage, the first night with your other half will always feel like a fresh start and it's all natural. Once you're equipped with the right kind of research and information, there's nothing that you'll have to worry about.