I'm single. I live in LA. I'm on dating apps. And unsurprisingly, I get more unsolicited dick pics than you could ever imagine. Out of nowhere, the straight-guy selfie takes over my phone screen like virtual unwanted morning wood. I wondered, "What would guys do if I turned the tables and sent them an unexpected vagina pic?
When actress Natalie Morales recently discovered a photographer had taken photos up her skirt and sold them to a publication, she was understandably furious. In a series of 10 tweets, the star laid out exactly how offensive she found the experience, and what a "disgusting, horrifying job" the photographer must have. When I was sent the photos, my first instinct was to ignore them and move on. But then I realised this must happen to women all the time, and this time, I am not going to let it slide. This photographer, not unlike the ones that wait outside of the cars female celebrities are getting out of just to purposely take pictures up their skirts, angled their camera to see up the slit of my dress. Instead, they sold pictures they took of my private body parts — without my consent — to a site that makes money off trying to embarrass me. Just for existing as a human being. For having a body and body parts under my clothes. We are held to an impossible standard, where our bodies and our faces must be perfect and if for one second we are in any way human, like say, just walking around doing our jobs, we are torn down. We all came out of one.
I have heard for ten years that my spouse is "second fiddle. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. Mormon theology is peculiar, yes, but the media frequently takes things out of context and misrepresents the religion. While the Church allows dating at 16, it discourages serious relationships until you both are older and considering marriage. Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. These garments will not be fun for dating, if you know what I mean.
We have 3 children and have now been married 17 years I have been a single mother for yearsthere life is the hospital. But from what you said, this girl doesn't sound like she is going to be content to have a marriage for time only. I am not sorry I married outside the LDS faith. But I got tired of that, and I made it clear to him that I will stay in with him as often as he wants, put him to bed, make food with him or for him, clean, etc. I don't think we could have a real conversation about those points either. Should we try to heed their counsel and marry in the Church. That's all she thought about for 18 months, plus the months leading up to it, and winding down. It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you.